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The most important talk with your child is the one you’re unsure how to have.

You’re not alone. We’re here to help.

About Bigtalks Boys Toolkit Girls Toolkit

At BigTALKS*, our mission is to empower parents to raise emotionally healthy teens who are prepared for the physical, mental, and spiritual challenges of adolescence.

Are you…

Struggling with how
to prepare your child to experience puberty in a healthy, positive way?

Looking for a Torah-based approach to educating your child about adolescence without causing feelings of shame, stigma and guilt?

Worried about your child getting this sensitive information from questionable sources—all because they didn’t think they could ask you?

Wondering whether your child’s behavior is considered “normal”?

Finding yourself becoming judgmental of your child’s struggle, when compassion is more necessary than ever?

You only get one chance to do it right.

Puberty is a sensitive subject to talk about, especially to children. Knowing what to tell them—and how to tell them—is crucial.

We believe parents deserve the tools to guide their children through the often-turbulent stages of teenagehood. We also believe children deserve a shame-free, Torah-informed perspective on the hurdles that accompany these formative years.

Our BigTalks toolkits feature a user- friendly guidebook and a video presentation that will enable you to have a proper and productive talk with your child. These tools will help you navigate follow up discussions and answer your child’s questions in a sensitive and informed way.

Boys Toolkit Girls Toolkit

What rabbanim and parents are saying

What are the goals of BigTalks?

Build Healthy Body Awareness

Prepare your child for the changes occurring in their body in a way that will help them develop positive and healthy body awareness.

Encourage Open Communication

Give your child the gift of knowing that they can be open with you about their challenges, fears, and struggles.

Provide Guidance Based on Torah

Arm your child with the tools to face the physical and emotional challenges of puberty, within a halachic and hashkafic framework.

Prevent Mental Health Challenges

Educate your child about their body so that they can anticipate challenges while armed with tools in their toolbox and grow into a healthy, well-adjusted teen.

Boys Toolkit Girls Toolkit Download a Free Sample of the Toolkit

About the founder

Rabbi Shmuel Tenenbaum, MSMFT, a therapist and Mashgiach at Yeshiva Tiferes Tzvi (YTT), developed the BigTalks for Boys program over the course of several years based on abundant feedback from parents, educators, and mental health professionals.

This program is currently one of very few approved by rabbanim for addressing this topic. It has been successfully piloted with adolescent boys in YTT since תש״ע – 2010, as well as adapted in other religious Jewish schools around the world.

What other toolkits will we be producing?

Kedusha, Inc. and BigTalks is excited to produce and make available many more resources for parents. Our goals include:

Going to Yeshiva Toolkit

Teenage Toolkit
for Boys

Adolescent Development
Toolkit for Girls

Teenage Toolkit
for Girls

Customized Toolkits
By Request

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