At BigTALKS*, our mission is to empower parents to raise emotionally healthy teens who are prepared for the physical, mental, and spiritual challenges of adolescence.
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*T.A.L.K.= Tools for Adolescents Living with Kedusha

You only get one chance to do it right.
Puberty is a sensitive subject to talk about, especially to children. Knowing what to tell them—and how to tell them—is crucial.
We believe parents deserve the tools to guide their children through the often-turbulent stages of teenagehood. We also believe children deserve a shame-free, Torah-informed perspective on the hurdles that accompany these formative years.
Our BigTalks toolkit for boys features a user- friendly guidebook and a video presentation that will enable you to have a proper and productive talk with your son. These tools will help you navigate follow up discussions and answer your son’s questions in a sensitive and informed way.
What rabbanim and parents are saying
Ich hob es leib- I really like it!
The Novominsker Rebbe, HaRav Yaakov Perlow zt"l
Torah Umesorah recognizes the efforts of Rabbi Shmuel Tenenbaum, Mashgiach Ruchani of Yeshiva Tiferes Tzvi, for his formulating “Big Talks,” a much needed sefer on the challenges and nisyonos that talmidim encounter in their teenage years.
“Big Talks” is a most worthwhile tool to be used by parents and others who are involved in directing the growth of children.
The sefer is endorsed by the Vaad Roshei Yeshiva of Torah Umesorah.
Rabbi Dovid Nojowitz
Menahel, Torah Umesorah
Rabbi Tenenbaum’s love for all talmidim, his devoted care to all the bachurim in the community and beyond, has no boundaries. With his heart of gold, his passion and fire in avodas Hashem Yisborach, he created an amazing curriculum that addresses this issue with perfection. Explaining what needs to be explained, “Lo pachos v’lo yoser”. His work hits straight to the hearts and minds of our talmidim, giving them a toolbox to be true B’nei Torah kedoshim u’tehorim that are Shomrei Habris.
.. Take this bracha into your yeshiva and you will see bracha u’kedusha in your talmidim.
Rabbi Klausner
Rosh Chaburah, Marbeh Chaim
I suggest you get the CD from Rabbi Tenenbaum to teach your child about inyanei kedusha.
HaRav Elya Brudney Sh"lita
Words are our most powerful tool. In a most clever and amiable way, Rabbi Tenenbaum gives us the tools to make the talk we need to have with our children a perfect fix.
Rabbi Nosson Muller
Menahel, Yeshivas Tiferes Tzvi, Chicago
Professionally, as a frum social worker that has worked with teenagers for 15 years, I am amazed by this amazing new kedusha talk. I wish this was around when I started my career. Personally, as a parent, I used this kedusha talk with my sons and the results have been beyond superb. It went so far that my son just recently mentioned to me that it is so sad that all his friends didn’t have this talk when they were reaching Bar Mitzva age, it would have really helped them not being so confused and have a healthy understanding of the topic. I have used the concept with others and the results are astounding. This is a MUST for every parent, mechanech, and professional.
A Thankful Parent

About the founder
Rabbi Shmuel Tenenbaum, MSMFT, a therapist and Mashgiach at Yeshiva Tiferes Tzvi (YTT), developed the BigTalks for Boys program over the course of several years based on abundant feedback from parents, educators, and mental health professionals.
This program is currently one of very few approved by rabbanim for addressing this topic. It has been successfully piloted with adolescent boys in YTT since תש״ע – 2010, as well as adapted in other religious Jewish schools around the world.
What other toolkits will we be producing?
Kedusha, Inc. and BigTalks is excited to produce and make available many more resources for parents. Our goals include:
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